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Written by Brooke
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Wednesday, 21 October 2009 |
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With just weeks to go before Maine's historic marriage vote the Hanford Equality Team has organized a phone bank. This will be our last chance to help save them from feeling the same devastation that we did one year ago. Please come do what you can to help save marriage in Maine. All you need is your voice, cell phone and the desire to make a difference. They need us now and time is running out. Thank you for your support and thanks to the Hanford Team for stepping up yet again!
The Halloween phone bank will be held on October 31st from 12-3 and yes, wear your costume! There will be a small celebration after the work is done. Email me for the location and/or directions.
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Written by Sbei
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Tuesday, 20 October 2009 |
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Future GLBT Lions,
We had a 100% Charter Membership sign-up at our last meeting. We had
great questions asked and had good support from local Lions Clubs.
We have a second meeting scheduled for Thursday, October 29th at 7:00 P.M. at the Visalia LampLiter Inn, 3300 West Mineral King, in the Cambridge Room.
We are excited about getting the twenty (20) members needed to form our GLBT Lions Club and then we can have an official meeting to elect officers and set our goals to serve our community.
I look forward to seeing you at our next meeting.
If you have any questions, please contact either, Sbei at 713-1969/ mlsbei@mlsbei@sbcglobal.net or Georgia at 733-0894/ georgia26@sbcglobal.net
Thank you,
Sbei and Georgia
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Written by Mosaic Community
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Friday, 16 October 2009 |
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You broke a plate at Family Fest, or perhaps you did not get a chance, but next Thursday we will start building a mosaic.
Mosaic
Bringing together diverse and broken pieces to make a beautiful whole. A community of compassion, grace, serving, and transformation.



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Written by Brooke
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Friday, 16 October 2009 |
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I received a call last night from the Partnership Specialist, LGBT Communities of the US Census Bureau. We will be having more info getting out to you over the coming months of the importance of our reporting. In the meantime, please read the article below for a little insight. Thanks.
When the U.S. Census Bureau counts same-sex married couples next year, demographers expect hundreds of thousands to report they are spouses -- even though legal same-sex weddings in the United States number in the tens of thousands.
Gay advocates say they plan to use "A Census that Reflects America's Population," as the Census Bureau calls its plan to report same-sex marriage statistics, to push for legislative and policy initiatives, while groups opposed to same-sex marriage weigh a counteroffensive. READ MORE
**Update: Matt, the census specialist will be stopping by the PFLAG Rememberance Ceremony tonight in Visalia to give us all a little more info. Stick around afterwards to get informed. This is just another great reason to come out tonight and get involved with YOUR community. See you tonight, don't forget your canned goods!
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Written by Sbei
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Thursday, 15 October 2009 |
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Hi Everyone,
Just a quick reminder of our Orientation/Formation meeting TONIGHT, Thursday, October 15th at 7:00 P.M. at the LampLiter Inn, 5500 West Mineral King, in the Cambridge Room. Coffee, tea, and a light desert (cookies) will be provided.
Officials form the Lions Club, District 4A-2, will be in attendance to make a presentation and answer any questions you may have.
We are very excited of the excellent response to the invitation to form a GLBT Lions Club and officially get us on the road to community service in Lionism.
For further information, please contact Sbei at 713-1969/ mlsbei@sbcglobal.net
or Georgia at 733-0894/ georgia26@sbcglobal.net.
Thank you, Sbei
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Written by Brooke
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Thursday, 15 October 2009 |
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I was doing some research for a speech I'm making and came across this note. I was wrapped up in it and fought back tears the whole way through. Our LGBTQI kids are facing real hard times despite of the strides we are making. This 16 year old who attempted suicide via pill overdose was a lucky survivor. As you read his note you will find it lengthy, full of grammatical errors and full of profanity. But it shows his honesty, how lost he feels and his true, utter hopelessness. He just can't continue the way he is, it's too much for him to take. I urge all of you to read this to feel what he was feeling, you will not be the same. I do caution that it is graphic.
http://www.suicide.org/
suicide-note-of-a-gay-teen.
html
If you or someone you know is struggling there are resources out there to help! You can call 1-866-4-U-TREVOR, this is an LGBTQ youth hotline. There are also local groups and organizations to turn to for help. Reach out for help if you are in need.
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Written by Brooke
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Thursday, 15 October 2009 |
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Another touching video featuring a beautiful rendition of one of my all time favorite songs.
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Written by Leon Velasco
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Thursday, 15 October 2009 |
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This was a great and worth while event. There were individuals representing
Porterville
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Hanford
,
Visalia
as well as
Fresno in the convoy of vans and one vehicle. I went alone, not knowing what I was getting myself into and what to expect. Usually I have someone with me for company. I figured Id make some new acquaintances and develop new friendships, and thats just what I did.
Familiar faces showed up at the location of offices adjacent to Kaiser Office by Fashion Fair Mall at about 4:45 am. Little by little people started arriving; eventually everyone who was going to utilize the vans was there. I must admit that at first I wasnt sure if I was going to be having any fun much less stay awake for the trip up; the change in scenery was all I needed to keep my interest. Everyone was in good spirits and some were running on fumes of energy from partying the night before but it didnt stop their energy level. (Man, to be young again to party to all hours and still look unfrazzled.)
When we got there, the convergence of people was a great amount. The speakers kept the speeches to a minimum, (as promised), and then it was off to walk the bridge to and from. To start out I was in step with the crowd, some on lookers cheered us on and some vehicles honk in support. Under the bridge, some boaters got into the groove by their faint cheers and waves of support. Once we got across we rested for a few minutes then back across we went, (I had a second wind to power walk across) to reconvene back at the park for a little cake a strawberries treats.
The ride back was a lot of fun, and very interesting to say the least. Ever play the game of exotic dice as a car ride game? It made for some interesting body contortioning. The car ride back was shorter than going up there. In all by the time we hit
Madera I didnt want the car ride to end. I had made new friends and hope to keep in touch with them all, (especially now that I have Face book).
With dedicated people and supporters, together changes can be made. I hope to be a part of more events for the cause.
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Written by Brooke
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Tuesday, 13 October 2009 |
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About 40 of us headed up to San Francisco on Sunday to march the Golden Gate Bridge for marriage equality. We woke up dark and early to meet the van at 4:15 am. Someone overslept and had to drive like a mad woman to Fresno to catch up with everyone else, but we won't name names (the Visalia organizer and van driver). Maybe they didn't hear the alarm, maybe they accidentally shut it off, maybe it was the dogs fault or maybe there was a power surge at the exact moment my, I mean their, alarm was supposed to go off. YES, it was me darnit! It actually worked out for the better in the end but that didn't stop everyone from giving me a bad time..... ALL DAY LONG!
It was a good day despite the 500 mile and hour winds on the bridge! The event had a pretty good turnout, I'm guessing 250? I'm sure nothing compared to DC. But we did have a call to the New York MEUSA chapter who were in DC, that was great to feel connected to everyone there. And despite the bridge police almost not letting us cross because we had to show proof of the permit, we went, we marched, we froze, we made a statement, we made the news....we made a difference. Thanks to everyone who went and sacrificed their sleep! Much respect to all.
If you watch the clip below from the SF news you will see (some of us very brifely) Myself, Ryan, Jason, Cammy, Melissa, Crystal, Abraham, Steven and Nate gave a quick interview. The Central Valley represented!
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Written by Brooke
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Monday, 12 October 2009 |
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If you didn't get a chance to see the President's speech at HRC, you can read it HERE.
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Written by Brooke
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Monday, 12 October 2009 |
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Some are saying this was the best speech at the NEM in DC. You can read it HERE.
Hip Hip HooRobin!
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Written by Jessica Mahoney
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Monday, 12 October 2009 |
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2009 Press Releases
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
October 12, 2009
CONTACT: Vaishalee Raja
PHONE: (916) 284-9187 EMAIL: vaishalee@eqca.org
Governor Signs Harvey Milk Day and Marriage Recognition Bills
Sacramento -- Today Governor Schwarzenegger signed into law two historic LGBT
rights bills -- recognizing the contributions of slain civil rights leader
Harvey Milk and a bill that underscores that same-sex couples married before the
passage of Proposition 8 are entitled to full recognition as married spouses in
California, regardless of whether they married in California or out of state.
Both bills were sponsored by Equality California (EQCA) and were introduced by
Senator Mark Leno (D-San Francisco). The bills were the top priority of EQCA,
the state's leading LGBT rights organization and were targeted by right wing
anti-gay groups who worked to defeat the bills first in the legislature and then
by urging the Governor to veto the measures.
"We are grateful to the Governor for signing these critical and groundbreaking
measures into law and rising above partisan politics to improve the lives of
LGBT Californians," said EQCA Executive Director Geoff Kors.
The Harvey Milk Day bill marks the first time in the nation's history that a
state will officially recognize and celebrate the contributions of an openly
LGBT person with an annual "day of special significance."
"Californians will now learn about Harvey's amazing contributions to the
advancement of civil rights for decades to come," Kors said. "He is a role model
to millions, and this legislation will help ensure his legacy lives on forever."
The Marriage Recognition and Family Protection Act, also signed today, holds
that same-sex couples married before the passage of Proposition 8 must be
recognized as married spouses in California, regardless of whether they married
in California or in another state or nation. In addition, the new statute also
confirms that same-sex couples married outside of California after November 5,
2008, must be given all of the rights, protections and responsibilities of
married spouses under California law, with the sole exception of the designation
of "marriage."
"We are grateful that the Governor has signed this critical bill, which provides
much needed protections for same-sex couples who have legally married out of
state, or will in the future, and who deserve to be treated like any other
married couple," Kors said. "This bill will allow same-sex couples to get
married in other states and countries and ensure they are treated equally under
the law when they return to California. Ultimately, however, restoring the
freedom to marry is the only way to ensure that all Californians receive the
dignity and respect that comes with marriage."
"When California offered marriage licenses to same-sex couples in 2008, spouses
who were already married in another state or country were prohibited from
re-marrying in California," said Senator Leno. "Now those couples and their
families are in limbo because their rights and protections under law are not
clear. This new law will ensure that same-sex couples are protected by existing
California law that recognizes all marriages equally, regardless of where they
are performed."
The Governor also signed EQCA-sponsored legislation by Assemblymember John A.
Pérez to help leverage funding for same-sex domestic violence services and
vetoed two bills on the grounds that existing law and policy already provided
the protections the bills sought to put into statute: the Equal ID Act, allowing
transgender people to obtain new birth certificates and the LGBT Prisoner Safety
Act, considering sexual orientation and gender identity to safely house
prisoners.
"While we believe it is important to have these protections in statute rather
than just as policy or court precedent and are disappointed by the vetoes, the
Governor's reaffirmation of these policies will hopefully help ensure they are
enforced," Kors said.
For more information about EQCA's legislation, visit
http://www.eqca.org/legislation.
Equality California (EQCA) is the largest statewide lesbian, gay, bisexual,
transgender-rights advocacy organization in California. In the past decade, EQCA
has strategically moved California from a state with extremely limited legal
protections for LGBT individuals to a state with some of the most comprehensive
civil-rights protections in the nation. EQCA has passed over 60 pieces of
legislation and continues to advance equality through legislative advocacy,
public education and community empowerment. www.eqca.org
*and:
Governor Signs Bill Expanding Resources for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and
Transgender Survivors of Domestic Violence
http://www.eqca.org/site/apps/nl/newsletter2.asp?c=kuLRJ9MRKrH&b=4869041
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Written by Brooke
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Friday, 09 October 2009 |
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Ive finally gotten the chance to sit down and write about Family Fest. I think it was a great success for the first time holding it. I see areas where I need to improve for next year and promise it will be even better in the years to come. Im very open to any comments and suggestions you want to make so dont hesitate to contact me. Brooke@GayVisalia.com
Im honored to have had such a great turnout! We had people from
Fresno
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Hanford
,
Porterville
and all areas around and in between. There were singles, couples, families, straight allies and more. It was such a great mix of people our diversity really shown through. I would like to share a comment I received. This made the whole day worth it to me. Every stress to pull it off, every late night, every dollar spent, etc. was whisked away by this single comment:
Brooke, We as a family, my spouse Peter and my niece Mitzi, had a great time being together at Family Fest and this a comment I made to them and wanted to pass along to you to let you know how great I think the event was for us.
Look around the group here, in the past we have had family events but it was mainly adults without children, now look around us, there are kids with single parents, adopted parents, parents and/or aunts and uncles. How wonderful this is! Thanks for creating an event that give us all the opportunity to bring our family unit no matter, how big or small and just be able to celebrate our families and community.
Next year, more of our family will be with us to celebrate!!!
I hope everyone who attended can relate to this comment. I hope this comment will encourage others to come out next year. YOU the community are why I am here and do what I do. I want our community to have activities and events where we can all meet and just be ourselves, to feel safe, comfortable and proud. I hope myself and Gay Visalia can continue to provide this for many years to come. Also, if you know of a friendly event happening you can always let us know and we will do our best to spread the word. Anyone is welcome to use the site to promote our community or other worth while cause, just get in touch with me.
So, in closing
thanks again to everyone who attended. A special thanks to Jessica for all of her hard work and dedication. To the set up crew, Jessica, Anita, Abraham & Steven, I couldnt have done it without you! Hugs to the Gay Fresno crew, Jason, RJ, Chris & Vickye, your support made this happen. To Misty and Marcy who helped acquire a few donations and tended to my girls when I couldnt, thank you. To all of the groups who came out and had booths, thank you for supporting our community and the event. Im sure Im forgetting people and I apologize. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I will see you all next year for an even bigger and better Family Fest!
I wouldnt be myself if I didnt end this by saying: Although it is extremely important we gather in celebration of our diversity on a social level, it is equally important that we dont forget that we are living in this world as separate people. Our rights and our lives do not hold the same value as most others and this is not acceptable on any level. As we head for another battle at the ballots in 2010, I urge all of you to step up with conviction and help us fight for you and for everyone else who is made to feel less worthy than the other humans we live amongst. To help fight for those kids and teenagers who feel hopeless and take their own lives. Those people who lose their lives to violent hatred because they choose to openly live as who they are. I hope I can count on you to get involved. I will be thinking of all of you this Sunday as I head to
San Francisco
to march the
Golden Gate
Bridge
for your equality and of those people making the long journey to DC to march for the equality of every person living in this country. Together we can make a difference. Together we will make a difference. Together we are the difference.
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Written by Whitney Weddell
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Friday, 09 October 2009 |
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2010 AIDS Lifecycle Meeting |
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Written by Hope
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Wednesday, 07 October 2009 |
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2010 AIDS LifeCycle09 - Kick-off Meeting
If you are interested in riding or being a roadie, be sure to come to the next upcoming PFLAG meeting. October 18. Immediately following that meeting will be the 1st meeting to register and discuss 2010 AIDS LifeCycle.
We will cover:
1) Team Naming (come with some ideas)
2) Roadie and Rider requirements
3) Fundraising goal and tactics.
4) Complete Information/contact Sheet(s). I hope to have received all registration forms (or instructions for us) by then.
Meeting will only be about 15-30 minutes in length. If you have any questions contact me at scottandhope@sbcglobal.net. Thanks and I look forward to sharing this journey with you all.
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Written by Sbei
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Wednesday, 07 October 2009 |
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Due to an excellent response to the invitation to form a GLBT Lions Club, an Orientation meeting has been scheduled for Thursday, October 15th at 7:00 P.M. at the Visalia LampLiter Inn, 5500 West Mineral King, in the Cambridge Room. Coffee, tea, and a light dessert will be provided.
Officials from the Lions Club, District 4A-2 will be in attendance to make a presentation and answer any questions you may have.
We are very excited and are very hopeful to get this club officially formed and on the road to community service in Lionism.
Lions International is the worlds largest service organization, and you can be proud to become a charter member of this organization, Membership Applications will be available and there is a one-time fee of $30 for membership. Checks should be made payable to Lions Clubs International. Annual dues will be established once the club is officially formed.
For further information, please contact Sbei at 713-1969 or Georgia at 733-0894.
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Written by Brooke
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Tuesday, 06 October 2009 |
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Don't forget the monthly PFLAG meeting, Sunday the 18th.
GET THE INFO HERE!
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Written by Brooke/Julius
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Tuesday, 06 October 2009 |
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I was blown away by all of the COS Pride Club members at Family Fest. Let me just say that this group is up and coming fast and I see great things in their future. They are organized, spunky and just have really good energy. They are definitely going to be a force to reckon with. They are beginning to do great things on campus for the community but as humanitarians they need some help with something outside of the community. The following is a message from the club President, Julius:
"As a club, we've decided to also help out others in need (not just the GLBT community). And we've decided to sponsor a food drive for the victims of Typhoon Ondoy in the Philippines. We are collecting non-perishable food and clothing. People could also donate money to the Red Cross. We will have a box in our next meeting Thursday @ Noon 727 B Kern Building at COS. We will hopefully have a box near Alicia & Gaylerd's office where people can just drop off their donations. I am also willing to pick up donations around town if people can't get to COS".
Please support this great club and even greater cause. THANK YOU!
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Written by Brooke
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Tuesday, 06 October 2009 |
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I want to inform everyone of a few events our PFLAG has cookin'. These events are very beneficial and very tender. Mark your calendars for October 16th. They will be holding a remembrance ceremony for all people who have lost their lives due to hatred, bigotry, etc. You can even add names to the list if you know someone who was taken too early. Please get more information HERE.
In addition to that wonderful service, they will be collecting canned food to donate to Food Link. So when you come to the ceremony please go through your cupboards first or stop by a store and donate what you are able. Cash donations will also be accepted. Please get more information on that HERE.
PFLAG does wonderful things for our "community" and is run by caring, dedicated people. Each and every one of you should show your gratitude and take part in these meaninful events. Thank you.
Contact William.VanLandingham@PFLAG-Tulare-Kings.org for more information or with questions.
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